Saturday 30 June 2012

Expectations.

EXPECTATIONS, expecting, expect. Well, in terms of RELATIONSHIP. Yes, i'm not in a relationship but i still have to say this out. Everyone is different. In the sense that everyone has different expectations, different perspectives, different thinking. Some may expect too much but just can't seem to notice it. Some may just go by the other party's preferences. Well for me i prefer 60% : 40% . 60% of my expectations & 40% of the opposite party's preference.

People might think "Hey, you're too much!" I am aware that i do not have figure nor do i have looks. And i'm  asking for 60% probably that's ridiculous to you. Thus there isn't any OBLIGATIONS once again.

60% yes, its kinda not fair. In the sense that its isn't EQUAL. Why is this so? Here's the answer. In every relationship i had, i don't look at a short term wise. Thus, i look in to a long term, which means a FUTURE. Therefore, asking for slightly more from another party is slightly alright, i guess. Of course there will be a limit.

Every lady out there would EXPECT their partners to DOTE, PAMPER, LOVE, TRUST. For me, i do admit that i expect all but most importantly it's the COMMUNICATION. Once you find yourself in a relationship which both parties can't seem to communicate, it's kinda hard to keep it going any further. Put everything up on the table over drinks, i guess that's the best thing to do at that moment in time.

Things might not work out after that. EFFORT put in, would certainly help greatly. So guys, BUCK UP.

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